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Showing posts with label conversation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label conversation. Show all posts

Monday, 21 February 2011

THE BEAUTY AND/or THE human BEASTly action

Image credits: Thanks to Geoff Teehan for the iPhone 4 tools, Fabien Egot for the photo from Monaco. Background from the Euston Flyer Pub in London.

Saturday. I went out with my friends and it was one of the days that the conversation went too far that we couldn't know how to end it.

This time we went to have dinner in a vegetarian restaurant together and then we went to a pub or somewhere we can listen to good music and talk. This time was talking the preference. 

At one point of the night I took off my iPhone from my purse and John, my biologist friend (against anything related to the non-degradable materials) asked me what was from the picture I had for wallpaper in the iPhone. I told him that it was from Monaco. Anne, John's girlfriend and Juridical Assessor of Ambient Law (or something like that) immediately told us that Monaco was one of the enemies of nature and coast legal procedures (or something like that). I wanted to show her the photo but she refused because he knew what kind of photo was. For her the most ugly, insensitive, and outrageous photo that a photographer could take. As you can see, she is really into nature stuff protection. She likes photography and she takes (amateur) nature sceneries and human actions protests. (Now you know why John and Anne meet).

I didn't know what to do or say. For me it was a beautiful photo. Great exposure. Great lights. Perfect moment. Perfectly framed. 

Then, Anne tried to explain why this sort of photos are not as beautiful as we thing they are. She said that nature needs more space than the humanity does. So, when a human tries to enlarge their proprieties and goods means that other human has to reduce their space of living. However, this is not happening, nature has limits. What it happens is the more one person wants the more another want until reaches some point that the ones who have more take advantage from others taking their goods, so the ones who do not have much, they have less. And in that way there's a huge difference between rich and poor people. For her, capitalism is the reason.

At that point, when Anne mentioned capitalism, Paul, the economist of the group, could not remain silent any more. He quickly said that in so many ways capitalism has become one of the most productive solutions for the Twentieth century. Capitalism has been the engine of exporting and importing different goods to one country to another. And he made us reflect about the dinner we had eaten. He said that we couldn't had the chance to eat in that vegetarian restaurant if were not capitalism. Globalization made capitalism just grow. And to sum up, he continued, capitalism had always existed, in one way or another. 

Conversation continued flying at the same way all time referring to that topic and other related to. It was actually really interesting see what were the opinions of my friends and how they were convincing the others to support their theories. Quite entertaining for Henry, the sociologist of the group.
I think this night we all went home thinking about things that world does not take much attention but actually rather important. What do you think about it?

Quite unexpected night, mainly because all started with a photo of Monaco from my iPhone.



            

Monday, 17 January 2011

"Life is short. Have an affair"


Shocked is a word that can describe my face when I saw this ad on the web.
I could not believe it. Quite unexpected and blurred way of promoting this kind of activities. However, more impressed is what I finally felt when I gave my boyfriend the chance to watch it.
Non sense for me, all the sense of the world for him. And after all, that had pretty good sense in a way.

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- That is non sense! - I said looking at the computer while we were sitting around the living room table.
- What do you say, Darling? - He asked me still working with his computer.
- Did you saw that? That's non sense! - I repeated while I was pointing my finger to the screen.
- What is it? - Now he stopped what he was doing and did focused at my computer.

He read what I was pointing at. A few seconds later.

- But of course! There are a lot of men who are not happy with the couple they've married. And, well, they look for somebody else to fulfil their sexual life! - He looked at me and expected that I understood his opinion. However, my face were not into that. So he carried on with much more care when pronouncing his words - Well, you know, some men wants more... - My face were still - Different things... And, and.. humm... it's a way of challenging their life... new boundaries!.

He turned back to his work. I wasn't. I looked at him wanting to say something but I remained silent thinking about what he just said. Then:

- So, what you mean is that you'll be looking for a new "company" if we were married and I wouldn't fulfil YOUR sexual life... is that it? - 
- Sweetie! - He stopped watching his screen and faced me - You fulfil my sexual life! - He smiled me trying to hug me which finally does.
- And the rest? - I was still. We remained hugged but then he went 3 inches away from me still looking at me.
- You fulfil my whole life! - He paused because I was not reaching the understanding of his words - Look, I love you. I love you since the first day we met. - He paused to think - Well, not quite the first day, because you were ill and you looked rather awful...
- Charles! - I hit him tenderly -
- Ok, ok! My point is that we are good together now. If there are couples that can't live together is their problem, and if society do made up to something to make their life easier, then they'll know what they want to do with their life. But, that is nothing to do with us.

Pause.

I understood it.

He continued - Darling, I love you. That is what's the only thing that matters now and the only thing that I care between us.

I saw he meant those words.



I must admit it, women take things too far.